Sometimes we grow and all we want is to just be in a relationship; especially when we get old enough to believe things could get serious between two partners. When people get in their early 20’s that’s when they start to believe in that idea. High-schoolers don’t necessarily build into this affect since they know they are young and will eventually part different ways when high school comes to an end. In the article, “He Said/She Said: All About College Dating” the author says, “dating in college is a whole different ball game than dating in high school. For me dating in high school was more of “Oh, this guy is really cool.” In college, it’s more of “Oh this guy is really cool, we work well together, we have similar ideas, the same values and it could work out.” It’s more serious because I have a better grasp of who I am and what I need in a relationship” (article here: he-said-she-said-college-dating-rules). It’s reasonable to say this now since we are in a new age. If this were the 70’s, this whole idea would not be insinuated. Because of changes in time, the way society plays its roles has also changed.
College is a time where once dating occurs, he/she engages in the idea that they will be lifetime partners. Individuals get into these relationships but always fail to ask themselves, “What will happen after undergrad?” Most times college couples will be entering in different occupations and will set out to move to cities where it will best fit their career alternatives. Not all partners will match up to live in the same city after undergrad. Compromising on this issue is complex, and can result in a relationship breakup. One of the reasons why is because these days people are choosing their careers over their partners. So why not just wait to find your potential “wife” or husband” after undergrad? At least by then individuals will hopefully be in grad school or working in their career, giving a better chance to be with someone without worrying about moving afar. Sometimes the city where one is in graduate school or working in their career, that’s the city where they will live for quite sometime.
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