Good morning everyone! Greetings from an undisclosed, non-northwest Ohio location…
A couple weeks ago, I remarked about the ‘lessons learned’ while in graduate school. This included the open-ended question: What is the most important lesson I have learned from my graduate school experience? Today, I have a response to that question.
“The most important lesson that I have learned from my graduate school experience is the difference between ‘caring’ and ‘worrying’. As people, we tend to group caring and worrying together. Both are considered to be a sign of interest and emotion. However, I argue that these two concepts are indeed different from each other.
To me, ‘caring’ is a positive concept. When we care, we show interest in someone or something that is meaningful to us. Caring involves having passion and offering all that we have. Overall, caring has an optimistic, yet realistic sense to itself.
However, I see ‘worrying’ as a negative concept. To me, worrying is showing a lack of faith. When we worry, we may show a lack of confidence in ourselves and/or in other people. Worrying implies thinking bad thoughts, fearing unfavorable conditions, and expecting negative outcomes. While worrying may accompany caring, worrying is a pessimistic approach to situations.
True, it is important to be aware of both the positive and negative outcomes of our actions. However, while caring opens us up to all possibilities–including the good ones–worrying causes us to focus on all of the negative possibilities. In the end, I believe that there is no such thing as caring too much, but there is such thing as worrying too much.”
In life, it is important to believe that good things can happen and will happen. In failing to be optimistic and ignoring the positive possibilities, we risk becoming oblivious to all of the good that is happening around us and in us.

















